tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902155468436191007.post458217999902659464..comments2023-10-24T03:45:42.523-07:00Comments on Normal Adultolescent Behavior: It's just one of those times...Lonely Hearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05792726532101727497noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902155468436191007.post-34995121178747475522008-10-25T12:14:00.000-07:002008-10-25T12:14:00.000-07:00ive got to say on the frankenstein business..did u...ive got to say on the frankenstein business..did u try interacting? i feel left out alot and if you try to add interesting facts learn more or in general become an active part of a situation then it helps build stronger friendships. it may not be your thing so get comfortable.Mr Bam-bamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05306386261000730393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902155468436191007.post-89768213163159655612008-10-22T19:46:00.000-07:002008-10-22T19:46:00.000-07:00hi. I should have gotten back to you sooner, sorr...hi. I should have gotten back to you sooner, sorry.<BR/><BR/>basically, the tag is you just copy what i posted, then erase my answers and fill in yours, then you put four people to tag and then leave them a comment telling them you tagged them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902155468436191007.post-74799004274173246602008-10-22T18:08:00.000-07:002008-10-22T18:08:00.000-07:00*hugs* thanks for being so brave! I'm really sorry...*hugs* thanks for being so brave! <BR/><BR/>I'm really sorry about all that. I won't pretend to know what it's like but I think you should tell your parents about the cutting. I'm sure they won't disown you or anything and you could get help. I know it's easier said that done.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902155468436191007.post-80068782401643357102008-10-21T17:16:00.000-07:002008-10-21T17:16:00.000-07:00The only excuse I can possibly think of where he d...The only excuse I can possibly think of where he didn't have five minutes in six months to call is he is in fact Batman. And I no for a fact he wasn't direly ill because I saw him at church that one time. But if he is a superhero I'll let it slide. I'm hoping against all hope he has a legit excuse. And again, thank you for your advice. :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902155468436191007.post-13334214183599403112008-10-21T16:48:00.000-07:002008-10-21T16:48:00.000-07:00Thank you for your advice, but thing is he was suc...Thank you for your advice, but thing is he was such a great guy before ignoring me. I'm hoping he has a legit excuse. And all through this I'll be thinking "focus all attention on not losing your dignity" because if things get out of hand I *will* lose my temper because that's just how I react. I'll be digging my fingernails into my palms and biting my tongue to keep calm. Teen angst has nothing on me. <BR/><BR/>But thank you so much for your advice. You're the first person to say something other than "ignore him back" because I really don't want to do that. I'll tell you how it all turned out Sunday afternoon. You have no idea how much this helps.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902155468436191007.post-25698404318991875552008-10-21T15:49:00.000-07:002008-10-21T15:49:00.000-07:00I need your help. Please read my first post of Jul...I need your help. Please read my first post of July called "Teach Not Thy Lips Such Scorn for it was Made For Kissing". I have to face that guy again this Sunday and I have no idea what I'm going to say! Six months of carefully planning the upcoming moment where I confront him and the best I can come up with (which I thought of yesterday) is "You really hurt my feelings when you say you liked me and totally ignored me for six months." I don't want to seem confrontational but I don't want to hide how much he hurt me. I am but an unexperienced 16 year old and I am begging for help.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902155468436191007.post-56708873807037342922008-10-20T14:43:00.000-07:002008-10-20T14:43:00.000-07:00My mouth's fine, the swelling's gone but as soon a...My mouth's fine, the swelling's gone but as soon as it did -- hives. <BR/><BR/>I think the fact that guy mentioned he has lots of girls who like him represents his basic insecurity, to show he's not totally unloveable. From what you said, I don't think you really like him but you're more in love with the past relationship. I don't really know how to say that to him but if it were me I'd be like, "Um . . . we're broken up. I don't like you like that anymore." <BR/><BR/>That's my two cents.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902155468436191007.post-22529036532638833552008-10-20T05:19:00.000-07:002008-10-20T05:19:00.000-07:00Focus Lonely, lots of subjects to cover in this po...Focus Lonely, lots of subjects to cover in this post, but you know me, I am here to be Honest Mom.<BR/><BR/>1)My daughter does not 'Hang Out' with guys alone...won't happen, too many variables there, we won't go into that. And yes, you said they are your friends, but it is always nicer to have the numbers in your favor...meaning more girls.<BR/><BR/>My daughter enjoys sitting home with us at night. We plan to watch some of our special TV shows and a HUGE bowl of popcorn. Sometimes salty, sometimes sweet.<BR/><BR/>2) Life doesn't like you? Why not? You're still here...on this Earth...breathing...aren't you? Than I am going to hang on the side that life <I>may</I> like you if only a wee bit.<BR/><BR/>You are responsible for you. You cannot sit there (and not that you are) and blame other for your miserable life. Take hold of yourself and your life and turn it around to make a positive.<BR/><BR/>I love this quote from Elanor Roosevelt,"No one can make you feel inferior without your permission." Truer words were never spoken. I know you are just a teenager, but you are learning by watching others, mostly adults. And hopefully the adults you are observing are setting a good example, if not, then learn from their mistakes.<BR/><BR/>You have a niche in this world and you will find it, just keep looking, you never know what is around that next corner!The Cooking Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16899099551443426511noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902155468436191007.post-6461252119106459332008-10-19T18:34:00.000-07:002008-10-19T18:34:00.000-07:00I'm sorry about your weekend. But if it makes you ...I'm sorry about your weekend. But if it makes you feel better I have hives and I don't know why. <BR/><BR/>I think you should try verbalizing your emotions. Like screaming, it helps a lot. Or actually telling people how you feel. Or if you don't want to do that, sometimes I fantasize about going up to people in my life and saying "I have a lot of problems with you and now you're going to hear about it!"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com